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The Truth About Celebrating Your Wins
If you’re a part of the Self Care IRL Members Community, you know I’m all about celebrating wins. Every week, we come together to celebrate our wins, big and small. It’s such an important practice and...
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3 Important Habits for Changing Seasons
As we’re getting ready to head into the winter, the leaves are falling, it’s getting a bit darker out, and maybe you’re eager to enter the holiday season. Do you embrace this change? Or does it always...
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5 Powerful Reasons to Check in On Your Friends
We all have the strong friend. Maybe we are the strong friend. No matter what title you give yourself, we all deserve to be checked in on once in a while. Here are some friends reminders to get out...
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7 Ideas To Bring You Joy This Winter
The days may be getting a bit longer, but it’s still winter out here and the seasonal depression that many people carry with them during this time of year is still hanging around. Here is your gentle...
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5 Apps I Use To Edit My IG Photos & Videos
Instagram is always changing and adding new features, but until their editing features get a whole lot better, I’ll continue to edit my photos and videos off of the app. Here are my 5 favorite go-to...
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9 Steps to Starting Your Own Podcast
Are you ready to try your hand at hosting a podcast? It’s no small task but it can be so fun and rewarding when you dive into it. Obviously I’ve had my podcast Self Care IRL for quite a while now, so...
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5 places DJs can discover & download new music
Being a successful DJ is all about finding the right music to play at your gigs. And not only the right music but good quality music. The worst is being at an event and you hear a muffled track. Talk...
View ArticleVLOG: Beyonce Renaissance World Tour
We had to hitch hike to BEYONCÉ RENAISSANCE WORLD TOUR Kansas City (WAS IT WORTH IT?) So listen… I had come to terms with the fact that I wasn’t gonna make it to the Renaissance World Tour, but then a...
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(video) I almost quit everything today. DJ GIG VLOG - CIAA Reception
Here's first DJ gig vlog. But hunny. The day tried TF outta me. And this video gives you a big front seat. I am proud of myself for “getting use” to remembering to record the journey. But in the...
View ArticleMy son woke up & couldn't walk [Video]
What an eventful weekend. My son woke up & couldn't walk, I was zooted all weekend + a snake almost crawled in the car. This video abruptly ends because I was too zooted to record any longer. In...
View ArticleMy Every Day Makeup Routine + I Made You A Mixtape [Video]
Should we make this a series called "Makeup & Mixtapes" (or is that too corny)?! I'm open to suggestions, comment below. Anywhos. Here's my everyday makeup routine. I've listed the products below....
View ArticleThe cheapest thing you can buy from Chanel [Video]
For the love of all things worth loving stop requesting songs. Also the cheapest thing on the Chanel site is $28. Am I a Chanel girly now?
View ArticleIs Target the real villian for plus size women? [Video]
This week was full AF and I ain't even show you everything. At some point, I'm release this rant about Target's plus size options but for now enjoy the joke that was trying on clothes in store.
View ArticleDaily Skin Care Routine ASMR Storytime: She told me to stop spot checking her...
AYO, this is funny. It was ridiculously funny when I received the DM. It was wild to talk about it on Threads. So I figured I would leave it alone after this video (sniggles).
View ArticleI almost got kicked out of Soho House
I really be deejaying and it blows my mind. I headed to NY and Chi to spin for some of our favorites and I managed to fit a lor boozy brunch in while I was in NY. Also I paid good money for this fancy...
View ArticleJenee Naylor x Target Future Collective Try On Haul | Plus Size 18/20
Hey frens! OK so, I'm a little pissed my shipment from the Target x Jenee Naylor Future collective items came so late (I mean are we still hype about them). Anyways, let's do a quick haul and share my...
View ArticleALICIA KEYS SENT ME SOME MAKEUP! Is the Keys Soulcare Skin Tint worth the hype?
In today’s video, we are going to try out the Keys Soulcare 2 in 1 concealer and tint. They sent me four different shades, a concealer brush, a sponge, and a candle. So let’s play around with it and...
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Maintaining my sanity despite my negative self-talk
I know for lots of people looking at my life from the outside it can seem like I have it all together. But bih I am falling completely a part every second. But somehow I manage to smile through it...
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*pinch me* I think Apple Podcasts loves me
I got this email and I am absolutely floored. Come. Pinch. Me. Now. For context (if you’re new or just didn’t know because I do a piss poor job at marketing), I have a podcast titled Self Care IRL...
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7 places to find Black therapists
You should know by now that I am a huge advocate for therapy. I believe everyone deserves a space where they feel seen and understood. So I wanted to put this list together to help you (or someone you...
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